Things Only Indian Moms Say – And Why They’re Always Right (Ugh!)
Ah, Indian moms – the ultimate embodiment of love, care, and unsolicited advice. Well, all moms are that, but Indian moms and savageness go hand in hand. They love to love us, but with a hint of troll that is non-stop.
We’ve all been there – rolling our eyes, nodding in agreement, or secretly (or not-so-secretly) laughing at their quirky wisdom. Our moms cannot stay normal for a day, and no, we are not complaining about that. But, apart from these fun elements that they shower us with, they have the best life advice for her, which we might not like instantly, but they are a lifesaver in the long run.
From “Eat food, you’ll grow strong!” to “Call your aunt, she misses you!”, their phrases have become an integral part of our growing-up stories. Also, why are all our moms like that? What is that instinct that makes them so different yet so similar?
These phrases might seem funny or even annoying at times, but beneath the surface lies a deep-seated love and concern for our well-being. Well, we all know this, but are we going to accept that? Hell, no! We are also Indian kids, we have our own theories.
They’re more than just words, they’re life lessons wrapped in warmth and care. Whether it’s reminding us to bundle up in the cold or to prioritise our studies, Indian moms have a way of making their point stick – even if it takes a few (dozen) reminders.
We are pretty sure you must have recalled some sentences/phrases that your mom keeps saying, already!
In this post, we’ll dive into some of the most iconic Indian mom sayings and explore why, despite our initial eye-rolls, they’re often spot on. Yes, why are they so apt?
Let’s just check all the famous things our Indian moms say. After all, who needs coffee when you have an Indian mom’s wake-up calls?”
- Marriage is not a bad thing if you marry the right person, make a good choice
“Marriage is scary, bro, what if they don’t dance with me on my bangers?” The sentence feels relatable, doesn’t it? We live in the social media world, and ‘us bro us’ is a constant thing we vibe on. These are some of the many random facts we discuss amongst our friends. Not that these are not important, but there are many things we overlook because marriage really scares us.
But, you know who the best person is to take marriage or relationship advice. We don’t know if you are ready to hear this or not, but it is definitely our parents and specifically our moms. She knew it the first time that he was not just a friend when you sneaked out with him, and she still knows that the girl you brought home as an adult is not just another friend, even if you invited a lot of your female friends.
So, when she says this, she means she knows it! So, for this life-altering decision, don’t just walk, run to her, now!
- You need to eat on time, learn to manage stuff
Ya, she is right when she says not to skip breakfast or not to keep yourself dehydrated because, oh my god, you are so busy with your work. She has been there, done that and knows how badly you need to be healthy. Midnight snacking is fun on some days, but it should not be made a lifestyle.
You might not admit it, but you know deep down that eating on time does wonders for your body and mind. Not only do you stay healthy because of this, but you also get so much time to manage other stuff.
- Respect your elders while holding your ground
It’s okay to hate your toxic relatives, but what is not okay is to get down to their level. We are pretty sure your mother has been teaching you the same. When she does this, she knows she is doing it right. Also, when you read between the lines, you know she is explaining to you that you must respect them, but also keep your ground high.
She might not like a lot of your relatives, which is completely fine (she has her reasons), but she is adamant that you are not going to disrespect anyone.
- Wear your sweater, it’s really cold, you don’t know
Yes, we all have been there when the weather gets chilly, our moms get cold, and we are the ones who are wearing the sweater, because she is feeling the chill. Well, it might cringe you, but deep down, you feel that love. You crave that love, and you know you are not getting that anywhere else.
She senses it and knows what’s great for you! Also, she is saving you days of fever and whatnot! You simply cannot argue with her on this. You do not have an option, you will have to wear that sweater, no matter what! Why are you even trying?
- Cooking is a life skill to learn, and not to get offended about, we are not stupid to learn it
Remember your rebellious days when your mom asked you to help with cooking, and you always came back at her with ‘I don’t need to learn cooking, I can hire people to do that. Well, that’s alright because we all are independent these days. But, are you getting any flashbacks from the COVID times? Life did humble us all, didn’t it!
If one lesson Covid taught us majorly, it was to be independent in all ways because life can really get cooked. So, when your mom says you need to learn cooking, just nod your head in affirmation and learn this life skill.
- Save your money for your future, you don’t want to ask for it from anyone, trust me
Indian moms have a lot for their families. Did you read that right? They have done a lot for their families, which means they have sacrificed so much for themselves. Mostly, the moms of our era have been homemakers and busy building the lives of their families. As a result of this, they did not give a thought to being financially independent.
Not that they are complaining about it, but every time she sees her little girl earning her own money, she feels proud (of course), but deep down she wishes she had her own money too to spoil her without being answerable to anyone. After all, she is also just a girl.
So, when she says, save your money, listen to her; she is coming from a deeper point of view and experience.
- Stop using your phone that much, everything is falling apart because of that
Well, considering the present situation where our parents are bigger mobile addicts than we, they have lost their credibility on this. Also, Indian moms do have an obsession with blaming every life issue on our screen time. We are having a headache, it’s the phone, we don’t want to eat, it’s the phone, we fell, it’s the phone, we gained weight, it’s the phone, and the list is endless.
But, she is right on this! Maybe she exaggerates, but she is not wrong that our lives would be much better if we managed our screen time. We do spend hours doom-scrolling, we stay up late hurting our eyes, looking at the phone, our sleep schedule is messed up, we compare our lives with strangers, and so many more things.
So, she knows it!
Conclusion
As we wrap up this list of Indian mom classics, it’s clear that beneath the humour and scolding, there is immense love. Of course, it goes without saying. We know that, already! These phrases might make us laugh, cringe, or smile, but they all stem from a place of genuine care and concern.
The funny thing is that how come all our moms are the same in this aspect of our lives! Indian moms have a way of weaving their words into the fabric of our lives, shaping us into the people we are today.
So, the next time your mom says, “Eat more, beta,” or “don’t use phone so much”, remember that it’s not just about the words – it’s about the love and intention behind them. Maybe they’re not always right (okay, maybe they are, we won’t admit it out loud), but they’re always coming from a place of love.
To all the Indian moms out there, thank you for being the glue that holds us together, the voice that guides us, and the warmth that nurtures us. And to the kids (yes, we’re all kids at heart and also kids for her), let’s appreciate these quirky gems and the love that comes with them.
After all, who else can make you feel like a kid again, just by saying, ‘Beta, come home early, there Bina ghar, ghar nahi lagta’? Okay, on that mushy note, signing off.
Ah, Indian moms – the ultimate embodiment of love, care, and unsolicited advice. Well, all moms are that, but Indian moms and savageness go hand in hand. They love to love us, but with a hint of troll that is non-stop. We’ve all been there – rolling our eyes, nodding in agreement, or secretly (or…